I know Whitesands is now set to make her own recipe, but I will weigh in here to for shrimp and grits (my recipe is from Coastal Living)--it is so wonderful, I used it for a big "good bye" dinner last year when our Engineering dean was retiring. Everyone at dinner was a real "Yankee" but the creamy shrimp and grits disappeared quicker than a "New York minute."
I have faculty friends who've brought back the requisite stone-ground grits, but you can get them through the internet. And frankly, upstate NY is not exactly a shrimpers' paradise--but if you find a really good fish store or even the fish area of a local (really good) supermarket--you can thaw them very carefully, peel them (don't buy pre-peeled frozen shrimp--they will turn to mush), and dry them carefully, but save the water they thawed in for the sauce.
We had them with a wonderful French champagne--toasts were offered by all, and even office politics were put aside that evening.
Most of all--have lots of fun, and good wine. Low country cooking works magic, I found.