Sex Education is a difficult topic
One of the hardest things I ever did was to call my OB-GYN and tell him to offer birth control pills to my "sweet, innocent, 16-year-old daughter" whom I guessed was sexually active. I cried, I beat myself up as an unfit mother, I wondered if I were doing the right thing.
She's now a 40-year-old mother of a 13 year-old daughter who told me recently she knew that "getting pregnant" was not something she could do because it would disappoint me so much. She didn't have a value system as a 16-year-old to practice "abstinence," but she knew that she should either use birth control or practice abstinence (which I explained to her was the most emotionally best thing for her to do).
Bringing an innocent life into the world is such a big deal that I believe parents and adults should do everything possible to keep their teenage sons and daughters from making one of the biggest mistakes of their lives -- because their hormones speak louder than their brains. That's why we're called parents. We know the consequences.
One of the hardest things I ever did was to call my OB-GYN and tell him to offer birth control pills to my "sweet, innocent, 16-year-old daughter" whom I guessed was sexually active. I cried, I beat myself up as an unfit mother, I wondered if I were doing the right thing.
She's now a 40-year-old mother of a 13 year-old daughter who told me recently she knew that "getting pregnant" was not something she could do because it would disappoint me so much. She didn't have a value system as a 16-year-old to practice "abstinence," but she knew that she should either use birth control or practice abstinence (which I explained to her was the most emotionally best thing for her to do).
Bringing an innocent life into the world is such a big deal that I believe parents and adults should do everything possible to keep their teenage sons and daughters from making one of the biggest mistakes of their lives -- because their hormones speak louder than their brains. That's why we're called parents. We know the consequences.
