I decided to go back and see what the fuss was about. There were a couple of tangents (One being about the possibility of selling acrons in a down economy) and the ones I have quoted above about the person being married/having a girlfriend. It was Lightworker that first brought up the subject of the homeowner's dating/marital status. I personally think it was done "all in fun" and none of these posters afterward were being ugly gossipers.
Kat...I don't think we ever "had" Summer. I forgot to look at her join date, but bet it was recent. My quess is she either googled or visited sowal.com and saw this thread and decided to set the record straight. I (and others, you included) welcomed her and applauded her for doing so.
Wow...that was a strange PM you received! Sorry that happened to you. Sounds like someone putting their nose where it doesn't belong. Did you answer it? ;-)
Edit: Summer joined in March 2009. Kat...I keep thinking you are Toots!!!!
Yeah, you're probably right about Summer....sorry though as she pm'd me and was so nice. I can still understand her reaction. I think had it been a different situation she might would have enjoyed the board.
And, yes I did answer that nasty person who had only 6-7 posts and all to me. I didn't think he would ever leave me alone. People think the cafe runs itself or if you are not seen you are not working. Our office is in our home....but who cares I had my say!!!! If he had pm'd me again I was ready to contact Kurt about him.
I know I had Tootsie's picture from the cafe on my avitar for a day. I thought she looked really beautiful in that picture!